शनिवार, 24 अक्तूबर 2015

Are the messages advising to stay positive in life irritating to you?

It's easy to preach than practise.
This line truly explains the meaning that we all know.
Despite that, people keep on preaching and offering advice and long lectures on 'dos' and 'don'ts.'
I'm writing this article because I feel the urge to explain what I have, at present, in my mind.
While taking bath, a thought hovered in my mind that there are lots of books on moralizing and many other topics. Then why should I write anything and make it public on a blog-site?
After sometime I had my answer.
That's why I am here to share my views with you!
My topic is why people keep on offering long advice to the ones who are in some problem or when they tell them about their problem.
In my opinion, some people offer free advice because they want to show to you that they are well-informed and they have very good knowledge.
There are some others who may be sincere to you and offer what they know about the solution to your problem. Such people are not irritating, but they become irritating when they feel flattered to offer their advice.
You must have got so many messages on your mobile phones through Whats-app about several thoughts advising you to be positive in life.
You may have also experienced that it seems rather impossible to stay POSITIVE all the time.
The clouds of negative thoughts also enter our mind to dampen our spirit.
In that situation, those messages about being positive might sound useless, but in my opinion, you should not think them so.
Those messages advising you to be positive in life always serve as reminders to you that you should try to discard negative thoughts from your mind and divert your attention from them to the beautiful things God has provided us with. You may think about the beautiful smile of a child; you may try to come in the open under the blue sky and look at so many activities going on around you.
But this advice may seem futile to some of the people because they may have read or heard somewhere: "If you are sad, the whole world looks sad to you."
My dear friends, you must realize that it is easy to remain in sadness for ever, but why?
Our mind does not feel happy in sad situation.
It's not natural for us to remain angry,jealous, and so on for a long period. After all one has to change one's mindset, that is from negativity to positiveness.
THE GIST OF THIS WRITE-UP IS THAT CONSTANTLY THINKING ABOUT POSITIVENESS AND DELIBERATELY TRYING TO STAY POSITIVE CERTAINLY HELPS US TO BECOME FULLY POSITIVE IN LIFE.

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